"While a man believes he's going to get laid, the woman actually knows."
The Chemical Buddha found a lot of fertile ground comparing perception with reality. However, this discovery was one of his least favorites. Before he gained awareness of today's insight, he thought he actually had some sway over whether or not he got laid. The reality was far from the truth. Well, that's not completely right. Because it was possible for him to do things that would prevent him from getting laid, everything from an eye roll to a silent fart three rooms away from his partner. But he couldn't do anything to ensure he got laid. That was completely up to the woman. As a result, TCB started to wish he would come back as a woman so he could get laid more often.
What do you know and what do you believe?
How have those two things changed as you've gotten older?
How much control do you think you have over your life? How much do you really have?
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Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Take it or Leave it
“If I wanted to be celibate, I would have gotten married.”
The Chemical Buddha learned early on that the procurement of sex was difficult for most and almost impossible for him. And while he heard women complain about not getting laid, he thought it had more to do with who was offering. Not with their chances. Because women could get laid anytime they wanted. Sure, they might not be able to choose the person they wanted grunting and sweating over, under, beside or behind them but they could still get laid. He also never understood why women, when informed of their power, didn’t think they actually had as many options. Regardless of how often he did (or didn’t) get laid, TCB figured his chances were a lot better when he had multiple partners available to him, instead of hitching himself to one partner for the rest of his natural born life (and possibly after). Of course, married people still had options: take it or leave it.
How does having a lot of available options make you happy? How does it make you overwhelmed?
What power/talent/skill do you have that others recognize, but you don’t?
The Chemical Buddha learned early on that the procurement of sex was difficult for most and almost impossible for him. And while he heard women complain about not getting laid, he thought it had more to do with who was offering. Not with their chances. Because women could get laid anytime they wanted. Sure, they might not be able to choose the person they wanted grunting and sweating over, under, beside or behind them but they could still get laid. He also never understood why women, when informed of their power, didn’t think they actually had as many options. Regardless of how often he did (or didn’t) get laid, TCB figured his chances were a lot better when he had multiple partners available to him, instead of hitching himself to one partner for the rest of his natural born life (and possibly after). Of course, married people still had options: take it or leave it.
How does having a lot of available options make you happy? How does it make you overwhelmed?
What power/talent/skill do you have that others recognize, but you don’t?
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