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“High standards often lead to lots of lonely nights.”
The Chemical Buddha didn’t have high standards. But he still had a lot of lonely nights. That’s because the women he was going after (correct that, any woman he was going after) did have standards. And TCB always seemed to come up short. When out with his male followers though, he noticed that there were women they wouldn’t sleep with. And he could never understand that at all. He thought if you have someone, anyone, who wants to fuck you or give you a blow job, you should totally go for it. But then The Chemical Buddha wasn’t about making other people feel special. He was more interested in making himself feel special.
Where have your high standards/expectations kept you from connecting and/or having fun?
Which is worth more to you: your standards or a good time? How often have you been able to achieve both?