"Once women figure out what to do with what they've got, no one wants it anymore."
The Chemical Buddha considered it a weird twist of life that once you figure out how to do something you're too old to do it. For example, by the time TCB learned to ride his tricycle (age 9) he was too big for it. The meaning behind this thought is by the time most women (or anyone else for that matter) get comfortable enough and know themselves well enough to have the sex they've always dreamed of having, they're usually too old to be attractive to anyone. Or, if a woman really applies herself and learns a lot at about sex at a young age, the very act of drinking a lot and having several sexual partners can make her look older than she actually is and again, she won't be attractive to anyone. The key is to be comfortable at what you do no matter what. TCB was sure there were exceptions to this rule and we're not even sure if, like a lot of other things, he was even right about this one. You might be better off trusting your own experience.
How does your discomfort or fear of trying something new hold you back in your life? What steps do you need to take to be comfortable in your own skin?
Or better yet, feel comfortable sharing your skin with someone else?
Showing posts with label attraction. Show all posts
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Monday, August 24, 2009
Sunday, July 5, 2009
Fuck You Money
"Nothing is as sexy as money."
While this might seem to be in direct contrast to the insight from July 4th, The Chemical Buddha was able to hold both in his mind. He would say he preferred the both/and to the either/or. In TCB's mind having money didn't mean you were rich. It just meant you could afford to buy a six-pack or a dime bag or some day old Twinkies. When forced to evaluate people, The Chemical Buddha always found himself more attracted to someone who also had other things he wanted. For example, TCB would choose an unattractive woman with 5 lukewarm beers over a more attractive women without any beer. Besides, if he pounded the 5 beers fast enough, the beer goggles would make the unattractive woman look way more beautiful.
What qualities are you attracted to the most?
How often do you give people outside of your 'attraction set' a chance?
Why do you think people are attracted to you?
While this might seem to be in direct contrast to the insight from July 4th, The Chemical Buddha was able to hold both in his mind. He would say he preferred the both/and to the either/or. In TCB's mind having money didn't mean you were rich. It just meant you could afford to buy a six-pack or a dime bag or some day old Twinkies. When forced to evaluate people, The Chemical Buddha always found himself more attracted to someone who also had other things he wanted. For example, TCB would choose an unattractive woman with 5 lukewarm beers over a more attractive women without any beer. Besides, if he pounded the 5 beers fast enough, the beer goggles would make the unattractive woman look way more beautiful.
What qualities are you attracted to the most?
How often do you give people outside of your 'attraction set' a chance?
Why do you think people are attracted to you?
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