Be Safe

"Safety is an illusion."
The Chemical Buddha found some people really, really wanted to feel safe. So much so they would try and control everything around them to have it. No matter how unattainable it was, these people would do practically anything to have it. Luckily, TCB's belief that safety was attainable fell away after one late night house party when, just before dawn, The Chemical Buddha discovered that some of his guests had had sex in his bed. (And didn't invite him.) Plus they smoked half a joint he had on his nightstand. Not only was his concept of safety totally smashed but he had to sleep on the wet spot too.
In general, do you feel safe? Why or why not?
Do you think it's possible to obtain safety?
What other areas of life do you think are unchanging? (Or do you want to be unchanging?)
In your experience, have you found that things change to matter what you do or that you can keep things from changing?