Wham! Bam!

"I can always make myself cum."
Say what you will about The Chemical Buddha, but he was always able to entertain himself. He could stare at the walls for hours and totally enjoy himself. He would claim to listen to the grass grow or watch the dust bunnies form. His mantra was, "As long as I’m having a good time, I don't give a fuck what you're doing." Some might call it selfishness, but he preferred to call it self-sufficient. This was never more apparent than in bed (or on the floor or up against the refrigerator). Any partners that choose to have sex with The Chemical Buddha had to be concerned with their own needs first and foremost. If they stopped to consider what he might want, it was over and they were left sexually frustrated. And you can rest assured that he wasn't thinking of them. In fact, he was probably already asleep.
How does looking out for others (before yourself) work for you?
What areas of your life might a little 'selfishness' help you be happier? What areas might giving to others first help you?