Take it or Leave it

“If I wanted to be celibate, I would have gotten married.”
The Chemical Buddha learned early on that the procurement of sex was difficult for most and almost impossible for him. And while he heard women complain about not getting laid, he thought it had more to do with who was offering. Not with their chances. Because women could get laid anytime they wanted. Sure, they might not be able to choose the person they wanted grunting and sweating over, under, beside or behind them but they could still get laid. He also never understood why women, when informed of their power, didn’t think they actually had as many options. Regardless of how often he did (or didn’t) get laid, TCB figured his chances were a lot better when he had multiple partners available to him, instead of hitching himself to one partner for the rest of his natural born life (and possibly after). Of course, married people still had options: take it or leave it.
How does having a lot of available options make you happy? How does it make you overwhelmed?
What power/talent/skill do you have that others recognize, but you don’t?